Wednesday, March 18, 2009

I've Been Dumped..........!

...........by one of my followers! Stopped following me. No Dear John letter. Nothing. I only had 21 to begin with. And I hope you all know how much you mean to me! Needless to say, I was heartbroken! Couldn't we have gone to blogger therapy? I didn't even get served papers to appear in bloggy divorce court! I didn't even get to plead my case to Judge Judy! Or Judge Joe Brown! Or Christina's Court! Or the hunky Judge Alex! No tearful goodbyes. I had no idea it was about to end. Woke up one morning and I was missing you, #21. I know who you are, but to respect your privacy you shall remain annonymous. I was totally blindsided. Couldn't we have talked this out? Was I dumped because I had a quiet week with no posts? Did I not say I Love You enough? I did not give you enough attention? We could have worked this out. Please come back to me! I promise to me more attentive from now on!

10 comments:

Chef E said...

Ohhhh dare them leave a sexy blogger like you in the wings...I *heart* you!

Therapy only works if both parties can talk, but Judge Judy can get anything out of a piece of wood!

Misadventurous Mommy said...

Yes Judge Judy would surely have been able to get to the bottom of it...she's the s#%&!

Glad ur back...I know I already told u that but I missed ya!

Chris O said...

Unfollowing happens. I have way too many blogs in my blog reader and when I miss a few days reading I can get swamped. I have had to prioritize and I too have dumped uncerimoniously. Just a quiet exit. Now a days, I just book mark sites I might want to follow. I visit them for a while and if I deem them follow worthy I will go forward. Right now I'm thinking a dumping one. I'm just not feeling the love. I don't think I'm the right follower for her. It's not because she doesn't post, it might be because she posts too much and not content I'm really interested in. It's not personal, it's just not always the right fit. I do bet if I dump her, she dumps me too. C'est la vie.

One person I dumped was because after our president was elected she made horrible racist comments that overroad the enjoyment I had from her usual posts.

And spell check, people! Or at least proof read. Ok, I forget sometimes and this comment box doesn't have a spell check feature but I don't want to try and figure out what you are writing.

BTW its not you.... I didn't want to traumatize you into thinking we were leaving enmass.

pam said...

I was dumped today as well. Maybe it was the same person. The first time it happened I was hurt, but now...I'll get through it. LOL!!

I still love you!

Janna Bee said...

I've had that happen with someone I was friendly with and commented back and forth on her blog- I was so sad- but try not to worry about it- like Chris O said, some people (myself included) have so much in my blog reader I sometimes have to trim and if I am not actively talking back and forth with someone then I would be more inclined to unfollow.

Also often times I will unfollow people that post more than once a day. It just gets overwhelming!

You have a charming, fun blog and you are a charming fun person- it's not you- it's them!

And you go Chris O for unfollowing that racist person!

Wunderwoman said...

I missed you, and I'm NOT dumping you;)

Alexis AKA MOM said...

I agree bring in Judge Judy! I say it's ok to take a break and screw you if you get made the I needed a break. Muah I'll never leave ya darlin! Sending XOXO your way.

Bee and Rose said...

I'm sorry for your loss. I am wearing my black armband in support.

I lost a follower too. It made me sad because I just didn't know what I did to offend! Was it my breath? Was it the fact that most of my blogging time is spent in my pajamas? Did they not like my messy hair? Heavy sigh...

Don't worry! The rest of us are here and dedicated!

{{{big hugs}}}

Chef E said...

If I do I always wake up just before...ha ha your word verification is rowdy...

Tooj said...

I know what you mean by feeling like you were dumped! It's sad how we get so attached to our followers. I love hearing from you all. :) I plan on doing a post tonight to reflect my "package"...I love it. :) THANK YOU so much!! I can't wait to use it on a night out on the town.
(and yes, feel free to take the comment consideration idea)